This article has been updated to reflect 2026 data and recent developments.
I wish that during the 15 years I worked in boarding school admissions, I had kept track of how many students I interviewed. I imagine it’s a greater number than I would even guess. I loved to interview students and have that time to really get to know them, who they are, what they hope to do, what they are looking for, how they might fit in at my school, and what they bring with them. Sometimes, it was very clear to me that a student was nervous, perhaps it was their first time in an interview situation. So I would start with, “Are you nervous?” It’s amazing how identifying that fear could somehow easily dissipate it as well. From there, we could talk comfortably with one another and explore what we wanted to explore. Many of the students I work with in boarding school guidance have not been interviewed before this point, which makes sense given their age. I like to guide them beforehand with how they might be more prepared, both in terms of what they might be asked in an interview and what they might ask, as well as how to make a good impression.
For students applying in 2026, the interview may take place on campus or virtually, depending on the school. The purpose remains the same: to help the student and the school get to know one another. Families can also consult the admissions checklist for boarding school applicants when preparing for the application process.
This video looks at Miss Porter's School in Farmington, Connecticut.
What should I wear?
I’m glad you asked! This is one of the first things I ask my students who are planning their visits! My general rule of thumb is to look neat, clean, and comfortable. I suggest not wearing jeans, a coat, a tie, or a dress unless that is what you are most comfortable in. You should look presentable, but if you are uncomfortable, you will be distracted by that and not as engaged in your interview.
For a virtual interview, the same advice applies. Choose a quiet location, dress neatly, and make sure your camera and internet connection are working before the interview begins.
Practice your introduction.
I suggest practicing a handshake with Mom or Dad or maybe a friend. Look them in the eye, give them a good handshake, and introduce yourself. As they say, you only have one chance to make a first impression.
What are they going to ask me?
Scary, right? No. It’s not intended to be intimidating or a test, but a learning opportunity for everyone. The interviewer is trying to learn more about you and consider if you might be a good candidate for their school. Likely questions will be about your academic transcript, perhaps explaining any “rough spots” on there; your extracurricular interests and new ones you might be interested in exploring; how you manage your time; how you have spent summer vacations; what you like to read, maybe a favorite book; why you are interested in boarding school, and theirs specifically; about family and friends; and any questions you have.
The Enrollment Management Association also guides you in preparing for admissions interviews and understanding what schools hope to learn about applicants.
What should I ask?
One of the important things to remember is that the interview is a two-way street. This is also your opportunity to ask questions to learn if this school might be interesting for you, might challenge you, and offer you new experiences and opportunities. Some things to consider are:
- academic requirements
- honors and AP class offerings
- the advisor system
- extracurricular requirements and opportunities
- residential life
- study hall and in-dorm hours
- weekend activities
- how many students stay around on the weekend vs. how many go home
- leadership opportunities
You will also think of your own questions tailored to your interests, but this is a start. Don’t be afraid to walk into your interview with a notebook or a list of questions to ask. I always loved it when students pulled out their notes; it was clear that they were organized, prepared, and cared about their interview.
Students can also review the application information provided by Phillips Exeter Academy to understand how interviews fit into the admissions process.
One last thought: Remember that it’s okay to stop and reflect when answering a question. It’s even okay to say, “Can we return to that?” Students often get flustered and worry that they have to have the “perfect” interview. It’s the perfect interview when you are just yourself.
