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For boarding school students, and many teachers, the campus is home. Explore dormitory living, get expert advice on learning and living away from home and learn more about what can be done to help your child transition to and succeed in boarding school. Find resources for parents, teachers and students. We’ll cover sustainability, boarding school jargon, and corporal punishment. Read first-hand accounts from parents of boarding school students, find graduation gift ideas, and learn why small classes are effective.

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The power of community, and the weight of community service, in a small school.

The power of community, and the weight of community service, in a small school.
Discover how Besant Hill School’s residential life program builds community, service, independence, and personal growth beyond the classroom.

There is a tendency in boarding school scheduling to see ‘residential life’ as those parts of the week to keep students simply ‘happy, busy, and good. However, a strong residential life program typically provides students with far more growth opportunities than they encounter at home and that is a primary aim of the residential life curriculum at Besant Hill School. Indeed, the school labels it a ‘curriculum’ as it is carefully designed to capture the imaginations, motivations, needs and community spirit that the school seeks to foster.

A program that builds in expectations for participation and a strong focus on community service - not least celebrating student involvement - opens young eyes to the sense of accomplishment, personal well-being, and creation of community that is attained from a Saturday morning planting trees or fixing trails for the local Land Conservancy, or preparing and providing food packages for those in need. Indeed, studies report that volunteering in the local area increases students’ emotional intelligence, crucial at a time when it is reported (Dolby, 2013) that student empathy has declined by 40% in the last 50 years. Besant Hill School offers Community Service opportunities each weekend, and students regularly present in group gatherings on their experiences and the sense of achievement attained from their volunteering activities.

Make no mistake - waking sleepy teens early on a Saturday morning to go to their selected Community Service option is sometimes needed, and a motivated teacher/chaperone is paramount for maintaining student participation in

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How Boarding Schools Handle Staff Misconduct

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How Boarding Schools Handle Staff Misconduct
Learn how boarding schools screen employees, supervise staff, establish professional boundaries, investigate concerns, meet reporting obligations, and communicate with families about misconduct before and after enrollment decisions arise.

When families evaluate boarding schools, safety questions often focus on dorm security, bullying, emergency procedures and student behavior. Equally important is a more difficult subject: how a school selects, supervises and holds accountable the adults entrusted with students.

Boarding schools present distinctive safeguarding challenges because faculty members may occupy several roles simultaneously. A teacher might also coach a team, advise students, supervise evening study and live in a residence hall. Those relationships can be among the great strengths of residential education, but the proximity also makes clear professional boundaries and institutional oversight essential.

Understanding how boarding schools screen, supervise, and report staff misconduct therefore requires looking beyond a statement that employees receive background checks. Families should examine the entire safeguarding system, from hiring and reference checks to residential supervision, reporting channels, investigations and communication when concerns arise.

No school can promise that misconduct will never occur. Families can, however, determine whether a school has created multiple safeguards designed to prevent, identify and respond to inappropriate adult behavior.

Staff Screening Starts Before a Background Check

Criminal background checks are important, but they are only one part of responsible hiring.

The National Association of Independent Schools has identified written hiring policies, pre-employment screening, background checks and extensive reference checking as elements that can help schools make better hiring decisions. Its survey of independent schools also found widespread use of criminal-history and reference checks.

For families, the useful question is not simply, "Do you conduct background checks?" Ask

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When Small Classes Are Not Enough: Executive Function

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When Small Classes Are Not Enough: Executive Function
Small classes help, but students with executive-function challenges may need more. Learn how to evaluate boarding school coaching, structure, residential support, communication, and systems that build lasting independence over time.

Small classes are one of boarding school’s most recognizable academic advantages. With fewer students in the room, teachers can notice confusion earlier, encourage participation, and provide more individualized feedback. Yet for a student with executive-function challenges, small classes may address only part of the problem.

A teenager can understand algebra, write perceptively, and contribute thoughtfully to discussion while still struggling to begin homework, estimate how long assignments will take, remember materials, prioritize competing deadlines, or recover when a schedule changes. In boarding school, these demands extend beyond the classroom into study hall, activities, dorm life, laundry, meals, appointments, and sleep.

For families evaluating support for executive-function challenges, the important question is therefore not simply, "How small are the classes?" It is, "What happens when my child has to manage the rest of the day?"

Boarding School Review has long identified individual attention as an advantage of the boarding environment. Its discussion of why small class sizes work explains why greater teacher access can improve engagement. For students with executive-function needs, however, families should investigate the systems surrounding those classes just as carefully.

What Executive-Function Challenges Look Like at Boarding School

Executive function is an umbrella term for mental processes involved in managing goals and behavior. A 2026 overview from Understood describes executive function as including skills such as working memory, flexible thinking, and self-control, with difficulties potentially affecting focus, directions, planning, and emotional regulation.

The issue becomes particularly important during adolescence. Academic expectations

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AP, IB or Advanced Courses: Which Fits Your Student?

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AP, IB or Advanced Courses: Which Fits Your Student?
Compare AP, IB, Advanced Topics, and school-designed courses to understand academic rigor, flexibility, assessment, college preparation, and which boarding school curriculum may best fit your student’s learning needs.

Families comparing boarding schools often encounter an alphabet soup of academic choices: AP, IB, Advanced Topics, honors seminars, independent research and courses designed entirely by the school. The names sound impressive, but they do not necessarily tell parents which curriculum will challenge their child most effectively.

AP, IB, Advanced Topics, or school-designed courses can all provide rigorous college preparation. What differs is how that rigor is structured, assessed and experienced by the student.

That distinction matters in 2026 because many boarding schools are rethinking what an advanced curriculum should accomplish. Some retain extensive Advanced Placement offerings. Others emphasize the International Baccalaureate Diploma Programme. Still others have replaced some standardized courses with faculty-designed seminars, advanced research or interdisciplinary programs.

Rather than asking which label is "best," families should ask a more useful question: Which path best fits the way this student learns, the subjects the student wants to pursue and the academic environment in which the student is most likely to thrive?

Start With the Student, Not the Course Label

It is tempting to compare boarding schools by counting advanced courses. A school offering 25 AP classes may initially appear more rigorous than one offering eight, while a full IB Diploma Programme can seem more demanding than a collection of school-designed courses.

Those comparisons can be misleading.

Course quality depends on what students actually do. Families should investigate reading and writing expectations, laboratory work, discussion, research, assessment and teacher access. They should also determine whether advanced courses are realistically

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Will the School Teach Your Child to Write Without AI?

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Will the School Teach Your Child to Write Without AI?
Learn how boarding schools can preserve independent writing skills while teaching responsible AI use, and what parents should ask about drafting, feedback, assessment, academic integrity, and student voice today.

Generative artificial intelligence can produce an essay outline, revise a paragraph, suggest a thesis, and correct grammar in seconds. For families choosing a boarding school in 2026, that convenience creates a new academic question: Will the school teach your child to write without AI?

The answer matters for reasons that extend beyond academic integrity. Writing is not simply the production of polished sentences. Students learn to organize evidence, test ideas, recognize weak reasoning, and develop an individual voice through the process of writing itself. If an AI system routinely performs those steps before a student has mastered them, the finished paper may look competent while concealing gaps in the student's abilities.

The goal, however, should not necessarily be an AI-free education. Students are likely to encounter artificial intelligence in college and the workplace. A stronger standard is whether a school can teach students to write independently first, then use AI selectively without surrendering authorship or judgment.

Why Writing Without AI Still Matters

The arrival of generative AI has changed an old educational assumption. Teachers once knew that an assigned essay required a student to complete most of the intellectual work involved in producing it. That can no longer be taken for granted.

In May 2025, UNESCO argued that AI's ability to generate essays and solve problems is forcing educators to reconsider what assessment should measure. Its discussion emphasizes higher-order thinking, creativity, and ethical reasoning rather than simply evaluating a finished product.

This distinction is especially

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Recent Articles

The power of community, and the weight of community service, in a small school.
The power of community, and the weight of community service, in a small school.
Discover how Besant Hill School’s residential life program builds community, service, independence, and personal growth beyond the classroom.
How Much Does Travel Add to Boarding School Costs?
How Much Does Travel Add to Boarding School Costs?
Learn how flights, airport transfers, school breaks, family visits, baggage, and international travel can increase boarding school costs, and how families can build realistic annual travel budgets.
Sibling Discounts at Boarding Schools
Sibling Discounts at Boarding Schools
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FOR PARENTS
This section covers issues and concerns for parents of boarding school students. Explore corporal punishment, get expert advice on preventing hazing, and read first-hand accounts from parents. Learn what to do if things go wrong, see what boarding school students do in the summer, and get words of wisdom from a reluctant parent.
FOR STUDENTS
Here you’ll gain knowledge about student life at boarding school. User our glossary of terms to learn boarding school jargon, discover the importance of a partnership between school, parent and child, and find great gift ideas for the boarding school graduate.
FOR TEACHERS
The articles in this section are related to teaching at a boarding school. Learn more about what is being taught, why small class sizes work, and the impact of sustainability on boarding schools. You’ll find a list of eBooks about boarding schools, be able to view pictures of boarding school life, and explore course offerings.